Sunday, January 07, 2007

The negativity of Life...

You ask me what life is all about. If it's about living life the only way that makes you happy? Then why do we have to abide by the "rules" of society, trapped by the defination of morals & values and be bounded by the expectations of others?

But gal, sometimes, making pple that means a lot to you happy, makes oneself happy. I like to call it the chain of happiness.

You ask me why do humans have emotions - To feel love and yet hatred, To feel concern and yet abandonment, To feel laughter and yet tears, To feel hope and yet regret, To have and yet, be forgotten.

But gal, be happy you once felt the love, the concern, the laughter, the hope and everything else. Indulge in the memories - it's yours to keep.

You ask me how anyone could be so cruel.

But gal, it takes two hands to clap, a pebble to create ripples, a snow flake to create a snowball and an effect to a consequence.

I know the words are harsh. I know it might be subjective. I know its not pleasing to your ears....

But gal, he was once yours before you choose to betray his trust.
He once chose to stay while you chose to move on.
He once gave while you took.
He once drown himself in self-pity when you had your "him".

Now, set him free....set yourself free....its neither yours to choose nor him to decide.

Let time heal all wounds, clear all minds, open all hearts, learn the mistakes, treasure the experiences and make oneself stronger.

Love is not for the weak, the selfish or the fallen pple who chose not to pick themselves up.

Be strong. Be brave. Have courage to learn from the past, to face the present and welcome the future.